Let’s Hit the Links! Week #1

Look what happened in my backyard Wednesday night.

I really hate the cold…and the wind…and winter.  It snowed down the street and we’re supposed to have our first freeze of the season tonight.  Did I mention that I live in the desert?

Enough whining.  Here’s what I’m reading this week:

DQYDJ.net writes smart, well-researched articles like this one about generational wealth:

Volatility at the top is the name of the game.  Every generation produces new wealth and new means to catapult people into the top 1%.

In the Treasury’s study, only 42.4% of the lowest quintile of incomes they tracked in 1996 remained in the lowest quintile in 2005.

Nelson at Financial Uproar wrote this spot-on post about weddings:

(A) wedding is a giant waste of money. At their best, weddings are a largely meaningless ceremony which creates a false expectation of marriage being a magical union of heavenly bliss for a lifetime. At their worst you get bridezillas and people who get pissed off because their presents aren’t good enough.

Weakanomics.com dispels the myths about income equality in this fascinating article:

Since 1967 the total number of households in the US has grown 95%, while the population has only grown 56%. How can that happen? When a household splits in half, you get two households. Say mom and dad get divorced and each make $30k a year. You go from having one household that makes $60k to two that make $30k. How does this get reflected in the data? It skews the low income numbers down. In the lowest quintile household, on average there are zero income earners. In the top, of course there are two. If more households had two income earners, you’d see less of the widening gap. A single income household is economically less efficient. The rise of divorce and single parent households has contributed to the perceived increase in income inequality for sure, but this isn’t the only thing out there.

GetRichSlowly.com reviews the traits, behaviors and beliefs that differentiate the rich from everyone else.  The idea that you’re more likely to be rich if you take responsibility for your life and make smart choices doesn’t go over well with most people.  You must read the comments.

  1. Rich people believe: “I create my life.” Poor people believe: “Life happens to me.”
  2. Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game to not lose.
  3. Rich people are committed to being rich. Poor people want to be rich.
  4. Rich people think big. Poor people think small.
  5. Rich people focus on opportunities. Poor people focus on obstacles.

GiveMeBackMyFiveBucks.com explores the disconnect between what 25-29-year-olds think they should earn by age 30 and what they will.  Spoiler alert: The twenty-something respondents overestimated their earning potential by a factor of 3:

To the youth of today: you can truly do great things with your life and with your career – don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. But you have to want it more than your peers, and you have to want it more than those who already have it. Be hungry. Work hard, don’t take anything for granted, and create opportunities for yourself.

Paula at AffordAnything.com explores the entrepreneur mindset (or lack thereof) among journalists and their ilk. She met a journalism professor, and walked away shaking her head:

He’s insecure — that’s why he wants job security so badly. He doesn’t believe in himself. He wants other people — smarter, richer, and probably better-looking people — to create a job and bestow it upon him.

You disempower yourself when you believe that someone else must create your job.

Over at ControlYourCash.com, we continue our popular “Retard” series by exploring the Occupy Wall Street mindset.  These folks won’t be mistaken for entrepreneurs or millionaires anytime soon:

We found a website where Occupy Wall Street protestors have chosen to write their laments. There are hundreds of them, but once you’ve read a few you can create the rest from a template. Which would read something like “I willingly took on tens of thousands of dollars in debt without calculating the estimated payoff. This is rich people’s fault, for some reason. And I probably have a child. Feel sorry for me.”

What did you do last weekend?

The live Nativity at the Tuacahn Amphitheater in Ivins, Utah.  No pictures of the pageant since I had my hands full trying to keep the Travel Cat™ from visiting the fawning girls in the row ahead of us.  Here’s a brief post from 2004 with a picture of the empty amphitheater.

Carnivals and Links:

It’s way better to receive right?

How to Make Money with Real Estate Blog Carnival: December 1, 2011 Edition

Top Personal Finance Posts of the Week: Awkward Christmas Card Edition

 

 Product Placement:

Create weelth, get rich,debt freeHave you bought my book yet? It makes a great Christmas, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa gift.  If you’re in Las Vegas, you can even get it autographed on Wednesday.

Not ready to commit to a 300-page read? Pick-up my latest eBook through Amazon Kindle*:

Which brings me to…

On my Kindle

The Declaration of Independents: How Libertarian Politics Can Fix What’s Wrong With America

Nick Gillespie and Matt Welch

Maphead: Charting the Wide, Weird World Of Geography Wonks

Ken Jennings

Those Guys Have All the Fun: Inside the World of ESPN

James Andrew Miller and Tom Shales

V is for Vengeance

Sue Grafton

Curl up under a warm blanket and read one of these tonight.

Don’t forget to follow me on Twitter or befriend me on Facebook.

*Go here if you need it in .pdf.

Book Recommendations

I’ve received quite a few requests for information on books I mention during my speeches. Here are some of my favorites that I find myself quoting again and again.

What Would You do if You Had no Fear?
Diane Conway and Anne LaMott

E-Myth
Michael Gerber

She Wins, You Win
Gail Evans

Carolyn 101: Business Lessons from the Apprentice’s Straight Shooter
Carolyn Kepcher

If You Don’t Have Big Breasts, Put Ribbons on Your Pigtails: And Other Lessons I Learned from My Mom
Barbara Corcoran

The Power of Full Engagement
Jim Loehr & Tony Schwartz

The Dream Giver
Bruce Wilkinson

Waiting to be read:

Start Late, Finish Rich
David Bach

The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable
Patrick M. Lencioni

The Unmistakable Touch of Grace
Cheryl Richardson

It’s worth noting that I heard about several of these books from WCR meetings.
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My Bookshelf

In a recent interview I talked about how I like to read 5 or 6 books at the same time. I don’t know what it is about me but, I can’t seem to read them one at a time.

Today I’m keeping company with the following titles:
A Monk in the World
NOW: No Opportunity Wasted
Pitch Like a Girl
Maverick Real Estate Investing
Breathing Room

This last one is an audio bookthat I have had for over a year. I’m listening on my ipod and rediscovering the joy of audio books.

I recently finished
On Writing This is an awesome book that I recommend to anyone interested in the craft of writing. Author Stephen Kingstates that to write well you must read a ton of books. If that’s the case then I must be Pulitzer Prizematerial.

Also, Survivor in Death ,the latest installment from J.D. Robb. If you are a fan of Robb or her alter ego Nora Robertsyou will enjoy this book.

If knowledge is power, why not curl up with a good book (or 2 or 5) tonight and increase your power base.

God & Science

I have been reading the most fascinating book The Science of God by Gerald L. Scroeder. The subtitle says it all The Convergence of Scientific Fact and Biblical Wisdom.

This book, written by an MIT trained scientist, brings together the facts of creation from both Genesis and the scientific community to demonstrate that instead of science disproving the existence of God, it actually proves the truth of Genesis. The author is very careful to stay methodical and rely on accepted scientific theory along with direct quotes from Genesis. He never lets his personal beliefs intrude into the discussion.

And, in an instance of parallelism, I finally started reading Angels and Demons by Dan Brown. This is the prequel to The DaVinci Code also by Dan Brown.

I know, I know….I’m behind the times on this but I’ve resisted reading either book because I’m invariably disappointed by those books, shows, movies that others have labeled “must see.”

But, I stand corrected! This is a great book. The similarities between the plot of science versus God with the book by Schroeder made it even more enjoyable to me.

If you, like me, have been resisting the trend, give in. You won’t be disappointed!